134 Matchsticks

I know exactly what its like to feel alone, broken and unlovable By the time I was in my late 20s, I had ticked all the boxes I thought I was supposed to tick: On the outside everything was perfect but on the inside I was miserable and dying. I left my corporate career, my marriage and my hometown of Melbourne, and moved to Sydney to pursue my love... of NLP and life coaching and thought My life is finally going to start!, and soon found myself: Over the next few years, I experienced: It was during yet personal development/healing workshop one of my teachers looked at me and said, I finally realised I was doing this to myself. I was doing everything I could to sabotage my life out of love and loyalty to my parents. As a child I had promised myself, I will not be happy in life, I will not let anyone in until my parents can prove that they wanted me when I was in the womb. Needless to say this was unworkable. I finally made the decision to allow myself to let go of my pain and move on, I also allowed myself to ask for and receive help (life is a team effort and none of us can do it alone I did try at one point and ended up in a mental ward for 2 weeks). I also brought together the best of the tools I had learned from family constellations, NLP and many other healing modalities and teachers and finally allowed myself to: identify and release my true core wounding (I thought I had done this many times before, but turns out I was better at sabotaging myself than I thought..) to finally allow myself to move forward and create my life on my own terms. And the best part was I was able to sustain all of this and more, without sabotaging it all. After years of isolating myself, I found my life full of connection and love. (whatever that may be) and to really thrive. As a result of turning my life around, I created the 134 Matchsticks Method Personal Healing Journey . I now use this method to help others just like you to do the same: complete on old vows of loyalty to your parents, family of origin and yourself and live ...Read More