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Published on: 2/27/2008
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Jack Myrick, director of faith-based programs at the Oklahoma Marriage Initiative, said the goal of Edmond Date Night is to support and strengthen marriages.Following that premise, couples will participate in a short session on healthy marriages after dinner.Afterward, they will be encouraged to stay for an activity hosted by the church, or they can spend couple-time elsewhere.
Myrick said three other Edmond churches have agreed to be initial host churches: First Presbyterian Church of Edmond, First Christian Church of Edmond and New Covenant United Methodist Church.
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Myrick said the idea is to help couples connect with one another by spending time alone together more often.
"One of the indicators of marital satisfaction is spending time together, but research shows us that couples between the ages of 25 and 40 aren't finding time for it," he said.
Myrick said many couples are busy with obligations, or they have kids and may have trouble getting a babysitter.He said lack of money for child care or a restaurant meal and movie keeps some couples from an evening of couple time.
Myrick said Edmond Night Out should help change that for willing couples.
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Myrick said the different ways men and women perceive dating can pose trouble for some couples.He said in one study, men gave a different answer than their wives about how much time had elapsed since their last date.Myrick said because of the different dating perceptions of the genders, men were more likely to say less time had gone by since they last romanced their wives.
He said a man is more likely to think that a quick stop for ice cream cones on the way home from the home improvement store serves as a date, while his wife is more likely to think a date is a meal at a nice restaurant and a movie afterward.
"It's not always about the money.They may just see things differently."
Myrick said the short marriage discussions after date-night dinners will focus on the importance of communication skills.Also, couples will be presented ideas for inexpensive dates and other helpful resources such as Financial Peace University classes offered in the community.
Most of all, he said, couples will be encouraged to have more fun together.