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Published on: 10/11/2002
Last Visited: 10/11/2002
"The board has to raise a quarter of a million dollars a year to keep organization running, so some of the money goes to that in general," said Damon Martinez, teen director for the Boys & Girls Club.
With almost all of the dancegoers local residents, St. Monica's restricts its crowd to sixth- through eighth-grade students and to Islander students or members of the parish.Once teens enter the dance they are not allowed in and out privileges.
"Ninth-graders have tried to get in [to dances] but aren't allowed.But it isn't very common," said St. Monica's pastoral assistant for youth, Sage Dorrington.
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Because the number of kids who visit the dances ranges from 200 to 450, the Boys & Girls Club also pushes most of the same ground rules as St. Monica's, according to Martinez.
The Boys & Girls Club holds one dance for sixth-graders and another for seventh- and eighth-graders.
"Many of the older kids don't like being at the same dances as the sixth-graders, so we have separate dances," said Martinez."It makes both groups happy and works out well."
This year, both Martinez and Dorrington are cracking down on one important issue: appropriate attire.
At the last dances of the 2002 school year, some girls showed up in midriff tops and low-cut pants, prompting the teen program directors to amend the dress code.
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Some students were concerned enough to call beforehand to ask what they could and couldn't wear so they would not risk being turned away at the door, said Martinez.
Dorrington went as far as to supply shirts so that kids would not be asked to leave the All-Island Dance.
"I have tacky Hawaiian shirts for them to wear if they are not dressed appropriately -- but everyone would rather go home than wear them," he said.
The dances are extremely popular.
"It's a really big social event for the St. Monica's kids to mix with public schools kids," said Dorrington."The public school also stopped hosting as many dances and we do about five or six a year."
Martinez said the Boys & Girls Club has eight dances a year."It's a good place to meet and socialize," he said.
Although Islander Middle School still has a dance activity committee for each grade level, the school has only had one dance a year for the past several years.The last dance at the middle school was for Valentine's Day.
Since the dances have evolved into an Island trend, teen event directors like Dorrington and Martinez have become small celebrities amongst the middle school kids.
"I like that people recognize me when I come to visit them at school.They're, like, `Hey, you're the guy who broke us up for dancing and we weren't even dancing that close,"' Martinez said."I just laugh and say, `That's my job."'
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