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Certainly not, said Dana Levit, a fee-only financial planner at Paragon Financial Advisors in Newton who advised the couple.She concluded the condition of their finances didn't warrant nearly so much anxiety from Weber.They do a good job living in an expensive city on modest salaries.Both save for retirement.The issue has more to do with psychology than finances.
"A lot of financial planning is emotional, particularly when couples are first coming together," Levit said.Their financial plan needs to balance Weber's fears about not having enough money with Sullivan's concerns about having her finances constantly scrutinized.
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"It is really hard for a couple to live in Boston for less than $100,000, so it is not surprising to me you're struggling," Levit said.With the rent on their apartment at $1,250 a month, the couple spends 43 percent of their budget on housing -- above conventional amounts.
But one other reason money seems so tight is that they are "doing such a good job at saving," Levit says.
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They take home $56,000 and spend $55,000, a "phenomenal accomplishment," Levit said.Even their financial goals turn out to match: Both want to know whether they can afford to buy a house; plan a wedding; and pay off her debt.
As for the cushion Weber's trust provides: "I try not to look at it or think about it," he said."It's family money.
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Levit laid out a financial plan to soothe these competing concerns.
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It's tough for young couples to come to terms with their money, especially when one brings more of it to the table than the other, Levit said.
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Given Weber's aversion to risk, Levit was surprised his investment portfolio was made up of roughly 95 percent equities -- and over 60 percent of that in individual stocks.She suggested moving some into more conservative investments.
And regarding that monstrous prenup, she advises all her clients to have one: "It's better to essentially write your own divorce when you like each other."