UF's Harris Out To Make Right Decisions -
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Published on: 9/9/2006
Last Visited: 9/9/2006
Brian James has advice for Harris.
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James can empathize.For the past 18 years, people have assumed his sons are twins.They are not.
They are, however, Harris' teammates.James is the father of freshman cornerback Jacques Rickerson and freshman tailback Brandon James.
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"It was scary," said Brian James, who now works as a regional supervisor for the St. John's County parks and recreation department.
With an offer of help from his own mother, Linda, and the understanding of young mothers Coretta Blount (Brandon's mother) and Yolanda Rickerson and their families, Brian James went to Samford University in Birmingham, Ala., where he set receiving records and - more importantly, he said - earned a degree.
He returned to St. Augustine after college, and a few years later Brandon moved in.When the boys were in sixth grade, Brian and Brandon moved near Jacques.
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"Make the kids your focus," said Brian James, who swore he never would follow in the footsteps of his own absentee father."Be a father to them.
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As Brian James did, Harris will miss some of his children's firsts.
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The hard part comes after graduation, Brian James said.Sure, NFL dollars or a white-collar job might make life easier, but children need love more than they need money.
James pressed the pause button on his personal life until after his sons finished high school.At age 35, he married for the first time.He has another son on the way.
Harris now faces the same choice James did.
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That's the payoff, said James.
"Things happen in life," James said.