Baltimore Magazine - Nightmare Neighbors -
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Published on: 1/31/2007
Last Visited: 1/31/2007
The Baltimore City rowhouse is a breeding ground for neighborly disputes, said Caroline Harmon, director of the Community Mediation Center on Greenmount Avenue in Baltimore.The private, nonprofit center intervenes in more than 1,000 conflicts a year from across the region.
Many people who come for mediation have called the police more than 30 times.Preventing that number of calls, Harmon said, translates into savings for both police and taxpayers.
"We offer people a way out, rather than going to police" with disputes over yards, porches, parking, trash, music, noise, and animals, Harmon says."A lot of the issues have to do with Baltimore as a city of rowhouses, and that people are living 10 feet away from each other."
Harmon has three simple tips to try to repair (and prevent) damage: Speak directly.Many disputes involve messages through family members or other neighbors.Said Harmon, "If people talk things out face to face, they can make it better."
Spend time listening as well as talking.