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Published on: 6/4/2002
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Rev. Theresa Han is a Presbyterian minister who heads the department of pastoral care at the East General, where she's worked the last 11 years.
She's Korean born, a mother of three.Her husband Peter is also a minister, favouring the congregational work she finds too routine and repetitive - "like housework."
For her, hospital chaplaincy is intense, spontaneous and, for all its heartbreak and potential for burnout, as rewarding as it is challenging.
These days, in this hospital, to provide care for the spirit is to deal with all the faiths of the world.Moreover, it is to handle daily the things most of us from most any culture most fear - illness, injury, death, loss, grief.
"When someone becomes sick, people become very uncomfortable," Han says.
"They don't know what to say.
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We are more than mere physical bodies requiring mechanical care, Han says.
Increasingly, spirituality is seen as a contributor both to maintaining health and to coping with illness and trauma.
When people get sick, "it is often time for them to get connected with their own spiritual resources," she says.In the need to question and understand life's purpose and worth, some turn to prayer, some turn to chaplains.
"There are a lot of feelings of anxiety in this building.A lot of uncertainty.What's going to happen?What if I lose my limb?
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Sometimes there are happy moments, as when Han officiated at a wedding of an elderly patient.Often there is pain and anger.
"I remember once a nurse saying, `Come quick!Somebody needs you!' When I got there, he yelled, `There is no God, no God.' I was overwhelmed by his anger.But being there was the best thing I could do for that patient because he needed somewhere to do that at that time.I learned not to take it personally."