Ways to build better rapport with the boss @... -
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Published on: 1/11/2002
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Mark Derbyshire, executive director at Russell Reynolds Associates and O'Hearn's boss, agrees with his assistant's comments, and adds that frequent quality communication is also essential.
"Both managers and employees need to work at keeping the lines of communication open.
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"There are lots of ways to keep communication flowing with your boss," says Derbyshire."Figure out what method will work best with your manager.And when you do communicate with him or her, ensure that you are focusing on providing 'need to know' data, not just a lot of non-essential 'nice to know' information."
For example, if you're forwarding a lengthy article for your manager's review, add your own comments in the margin highlighting the essential things he or she will likely want to look at.
Of course, some people find themselves working for a boss that they consider to be hard to work with.
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"When you have a choice in the matter, be very selective about who you work with," says Derbyshire."When being interviewed for a new job, try to get a handle on the style of the person who would be your boss and look carefully at the fit between the two of you before you accept a new position."
What if you inherit a boss that you find to be difficult, or the manager who seemed so pleasant in the interview turns out to be a Jekyll-and-Hyde kind of personality?Even if you have a truly difficult boss, try to learn what you can from the situation, but don't be complacent about your circumstances, suggests Derbyshire.
"It's virtually impossible to get others to change their personality," he says."After a reasonable period, you may need to consider moving on if you truly find it impossible to build a good relationship with your boss.Life is too short to spend most of your waking hours feeling miserable in a job."