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Published on: 3/30/2003
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Amelia Bomar, program coordinator, said the bonds formed with the volunteers are special for this reason.
"For many of them, they don't have family and friends here, or if they do, they've been pushed aside," Bomar said.
"The Compeer friendship provides the support network that the consumer needs to re-enter society after being institutionalized, or to prevent going into an institution.This is their way of re-entering society and offering some hope."
Residents of mental health facilities also participate.Bomar encourages anyone who has a loved one who could use a Compeer to contact her for information.
People in the program have a range of conditions.Volunteers may request to be paired with people with disorders they feel most comfortable with.
"There's always a match for everyone," Bomar added.
An application, background check and extensive interviews are conducted before matching volunteers with their friends, in an attempt to ensure the success of the relationship.The patient's psychiatrist or therapist gives the final approval.
An educational workshop and orientation session provides volunteers with information on what to expect and how to handle situations that might occur.
"We like for people to understand that mental illnesses are treatable with medication, just like a heart attack is treated with medication," Bomar said.
"And the success rate with our consumers is usually greater."
Volunteers agree to spend at least an hour a week for a year with their new friends, but Bomar said the bonds that are formed are special and most exceed that minimum.
"In most of the friendships, if they're matched well, they will last much longer," she said.
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Bomar added that volunteers plan and schedule whatever activities they choose, but her office sends regular suggestions to them.
"We want the relationship to work," she said.
"The Compeer relationship helps reduce the stigma of people with mental illnesses in the community.In that way it begins to foster more acceptance."
And in Moman's case, her new Compeer friends have settled into a special place in her heart, rewarding by its existence.
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A relationship like theirs is the reason for the Compeer program's existence, according to Bomar."That's what it's all about," she said."Being a friend."
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