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Published on: 2/1/2008
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Simone Baker, vice-chair of the DPN and herself a disabled parent, says: "Fairly often, anybody that seeks support, whatever the nature of their impairment, will find that social services seem to wade in from the angle of child protection rather than with the idea that this is a disabled person who requires support in their parenting role."
Disabled parents do often put off asking for help, says Baker, because they are afraid of being judged or of having their children taken away.
A framework of support needs to be put in place for the benefit of disabled parents before their children are born, she insists.
Baker says DPN is constantly made aware of situations where disabled parents are struggling to get help after the birth of their children - and 60 per cent of those calls are from lone parents who only get in touch when things have become too much.
Another issue, says Baker, is that assessments of disabled parents are often based on their needs as a single disabled person, which doesn't properly take into account what help is required after the person becomes a parent.
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"Once people get to the stage of not being able to look after their baby is when social services would step in," says Baker.