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SUSSEX COUNTY-Over the past 15 years, Cheryl Brewer has gone from being a single mother on welfare, to an economically self sufficient person and an award-winning volunteer.In January of 1990, Cheryl was a part-time diner waitress and mother to three small children: Aaron, Tyler and Marie - ages three, two and one, respectively.
Shortly after she
learned that she
was pregnant with a fourth child, Cheryl
was fired from her
job and her
husband "went out for coffee and never came back."Cheryl
did not face or overcome her
young family's crises alone.She
successful personal journey, in large part, to the support she
received from one local agency , Project Self Sufficiency.Cheryl
quickly came to grips with the dire situation she
now faced, applied for welfare, and looked through the phone book and found Project Self Sufficiency
"Back then they literally worked out of two closets at Sussex Tech," she
recalls.Cheryl was assigned a counselor who immediately went to work on coordinating programs to help Cheryl get back on her feet.Cheryl
received rental assistance, child care assistance, and counseling.She
was also encouraged to enlist the help of the Northwest New Jersey Community Action Program, as well.
"Applying for welfare was the most humiliating experience of my life," recalls Cheryl
."But with Project Self Sufficiency
there was never a knock to your pride of self esteem.They treat you like a person, and support you through every step."
On October 15, 1990, Cheryl
became a mother of four, when Nicholas was born.Her
added responsibilities did not deter Cheryl
goal of becoming self sufficient.By January, 1991, Cheryl was enrolled as a full-time student at Sussex County Community College.Over the next two years, Cheryl earned an associates degree in Office Systems Technology, made the Dean's List during every marking period earning five scholarships along the way, and served as a Student Ambassador to the Chamber of Commerce during her final semester.To help make ends meet, Cheryl also worked in the school's financial aid office through a work study program, and ultimately was hired for a part-time position.
In August of 1994, Cheryl
secured a full-time job as an administrative assistant at the county's superintendent of school's office, making ,15,000 per year, plus benefits.She
got off welfare, and by 1995 received the child support paid back in arrears from the three years she
was on welfare.
"I couldn't have done it without Project Self Sufficiency
," praises Cheryl
."I used every service on their account list: the food pantry to help feed my family, the ‘working woman's wardrobe' when I needed clothes for interviews, and they even had parties and presents for the kids for their birthdays when we just didn't have any extra money."In 1999, Cheryl left her job working for the county and took a position as an administrative secretary for the Child Study Team in the Newton school system.She
nearly doubled her
salary, and still works there
today.During Cheryl's second year of college, she started speaking to other families in need of assistance on behalf of Project Self Sufficiency.
After changing jobs, she
was asked to be the agency's "wrap-up speaker" at their annual Project 100 fundraiser.Cheryl
was overjoyed to be able to write a check for ,100, as the first donation to Project 100 that year.After reaching that personal milestone, Cheryl took a seat on Project Self Sufficiency's Board of Directors, where she has served for the past five years.
teenage children volunteer for the organization's events , Her
16-year-old daughter Marie serves the agency as a Student Ambassador and her
18-year-old son, Aaron, assisted a chef at the agency's annual Taste of Talent
at Perona Farms earlier this year.
"My kids will do anything to help Project Self Sufficiency
," says Cheryl
received the Mary T. Stuart Community Service Award from the United Way of Sussex County
in June, 2002.The following month, Cheryl
received news that her
ex-husband had committed suicide.Her
foster parents and friends from Project Self Sufficiency
were at her
side at the funeral.
"I never could have gotten through that day without their support," says Cheryl
modestly credits her
"great support system" for her
successful passage from a young family in crisis to an economically self sufficient single mom.She
time with the same organization that helped her
over the years, to help others realize their dreams.And, like many moms, is preparing to send her
oldest son away to school next fall to work toward fulfilling his
own dreams.An aspiring chef, Aaron is deciding between attending the Culinary Institute of America and Johnson & Wales.
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Participants enjoyed games, holiday crafts, music, raffles, and even received a holiday feast, courtesy of Project Self-Sufficiency board member Cheryl Brewer and her family.
son, Aaron, who is now a professional chef, plan and create a holiday feast for the party every year.
As a former agency participant, Cheryl Brewer
is intimately acquainted with the experiences facing Project Self-Sufficiency
families at this time of the year.
"This was an event that my kids loved and looked forward to each year.
When I became self-sufficient we, as a family, wanted to give back to Project Self-Sufficiency
for all that they had done for us," she