And when news of an affair does drop, the faithful spouse needs to understand it's going to hurt, said minister Brenda Clarke, who founded Helpmate Ministries.
With chapters in central Alabama, the group helps women overcome everyday issues, including infidelity.
said when a spouse cheats, that heartache will be just as painful as if someone has died.
But people need to allow themselves time to hurt and understand it was not their fault, she
"Understand that there is nothing wrong with you and know that it will get better," said Clarke